MANY organisations provide help and advice to the elderly and the disabled and I joined up with them for a special evening at the Crossfield Hall in Romsey.

I was invited by one of the organisers, Anne Meader, to launch the new access guide which lists businesses, hotels, restaurants and shops, etc with icons against each to show whether they have a ramped entrance for wheelchairs or what seating, deaf awareness and other aids are inside the building.

Not only is this an obvious help to residents of the area, but I would think a good kick up the backside for those who have ignored the requirements of so many of their customers.

Some of the wheelchair-bound people in the hall said they still find difficulty in lots of our streets, where pavements are not ramped. They can't believe councillors turn down applications for this.

It certainly wouldn't happen in some parts, particularly when election time comes along.

One lady, who helps with pensions, explained how they'd come across one old lady who had been living on only £25 per week in a bungalow in the New Forest since her husband died. Naturally they were able to help.

The subject of carers in general cropped up and one lady reminded me that some very young people care for their sick parents while another gentleman by the name of Hugh Marriott has actually written a book called The Selfish Pig's Guide to Caring which gives a very funny but brutally frank and moving account of what it is like for someone who suddenly has to care for a loved one.

Anyone wanting to give up some time to help, there are plenty of organisations out there who would happily take your call.